Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Age Appropriate Wedding eVites and Invitations



Invitation Warehouse Contributor/Blogger

According to a recent article published by Today, it cites that digital wedding invitations are trending amongst 20 to 30 something aged couples.  It also pointed out that the guests of those couples who are 40 and over were a bit perturbed when they received an electronic invite for such an important day.  But why is that? 

I like to call it ‘generational communication etiquette’ and depending on whether you’re a Baby Boomer, Generation X-er, or a Millennial will determine the method in which you communicate. 

Case in point; the Baby Boomer generation comes from the school of thought where a traditional thermo graphed, engraved or embossed formal invitation is sent with an emphasis on considering the guests during the selection.  Why?  Because this generation also believes in helping others and placing others before oneself; therefore, the bride would take her guests into consideration in all her wedding planning decisions.
On the other hand, some Millennials - not all - are just the opposite.  Their rule of thumb is that this is ‘the bride’s big day’ and everything and everyone – including the groom – should center around the bride and what she wants.  And if the bride wants to send a digital invitation to all of her guests, then gosh darnit so be it! 

So what’s the solution?  Simple; send age appropriate invites.  Send digital invites to your younger guests and mail formal invitations from Invitation Warehouse for your older guests.  Or why not send each a digital and a formal invite?  That way everyone, including the bride, is pleased.

Tell us what you think.  Digital or formal?
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